Dec 9, 2009

Scandalized or scandalous? Choose.

Topic konon2 hangat di hot.fm, tapi bikin hangat di hati sebenarnya. Suggested penyelesaian for a hitch: a wife asks for help when the husband cheated on her and run away with that girl.

My advice? Get rid of your two-timing scumbag of a husband. Why should you need to suffer all the pain when he is enjoying himself with other women? I am not suggesting you to scandalize with another man, but to stand up and start afresh. Easier said than done, you say. Yes, but hear this out. Nothing comes pretty easy in life, don't you think? I mean, look at yourself, you just got cheated and is that any easier for you? No, I assume. Rather than moping around and feeling sorry for yourself, questioning what had gone wrong, better show your husband what you still have. Then he will know what he's going to miss in the long run.

What's infuriating is that, the callers were mostly women, being the scandalous lot a majority. I don't understand woman can do such an act to another woman. We should always stand up for ourselves, not try to ruin each other. Looking at where we are now, women are free to voice out freedom, to be at par with men if not higher, did you think we achieve all this by turning against each other? No, my dears, we support each other, fight for our rights. Who else will look out for us if not our own kind?

And another thing, the main reason for the scandalous act is because things at home are bad, wives not cooking, or men couldn't get their thang up, or children out of control or any ridiculous domestic excuses. You name it. Hey, those problems involve you too, so is that the only solution you can come up with by running away with another trash? I mean, why bother getting married in the first place if you can't handle problems? It's not like your wife is dead so no one to take care of you and the kids, or vice versa. You have each other. When you say the sacred vows, it means get through together, thick or thin. No stupid excuses. Sheesh.

Ada siap tuh, bangga main dengan laki orang and dia pulak yang meyerang bini2, complaining she has sacrificed her teenage years (6 years, mind you) with a married guy. What kind of world are we living in?

I'm getting annoyed now. In 2 days a row I have been a guru in a topic I'm not an expert. And it's tiring when you're really not one. Haha.

I wanted to post up a song by rossa, hey ladies (I think so). The lyrics are so perfect for you people who are being cheated shamelessly. But my office blocks all kinds of fun entertainment so terpaksalah korang youtube sendiri okay. Itu pun aku rasa korang dah pernah dengar/lihat lagu ni. Heh.

4 comments:

pseudoalia said...

probably both of us are going to get into trouble for saying this, but i'm all for your advice; if he ain't good to you, dump him. hahaha.

but seriously.

i think this is why, first and foremost, women need career. lotsa girls are getting education nowadays, which is good, it means there's a lot of awareness in this sense, but there isn't enough awareness in the importance for these girls to be financially non-dependent.

i think this is going to be LONG. hahaha. you know what, i think i'll write it up as proper post. ;) see how much i love your writing :D

sera_a said...

hahahha. alia, u couldnt say it any better. of course u need to write up another one and maybe its because mine is soooo bad?! mueheheheh.

but seriously, i dont understand these women lah, fight over men? it will just indulge men's ego. Geram dengan perempuan lemah sgt ni. haih.

ummi sa'eed said...

hah. i heard the same show kot. ada one girl called to say that she is having an affair with a married man and it has been 6 years.

she wants him to marry her because she claims it is her right and that she has invested too much time for this man.

one word. idiot.

Pial Khadilla Abdullah said...

well put sara. nuff said :)

p.s. dont even have to be a guru in this we knw wats e right thing to do n i bet those gurls knw it except they let their fear get the better of them. better just hold on to what they're used to than to venture into the unknown