i know they are not mine but can you get them right, please?

yeah, its friday and i got the kid to school for a week. nothing biggie but still, an accomplishment for people who can handle tantrum-throwing kids.

so you see, not only her who has a tantrum, it seems that i develop one too. i have no patience for small children who always want things go their ways and have whims fulfilled. i understand that children love to get what they want but if they dont, they'll start yelling and kicking and scratching like nobody business, i absolutely have no tolerance for that. you need to knock some sense in their heads. learn to respect. so what i do is, i tell them i dont care if you dont follow my way because i wont go yours. and i'll leave them screaming their heads off. as if i care.

i realise that nowadays parents are giving too much face to their children and the children stomp back their faces. yeah, i admit that my parents were quite strict with us when we were kids and i dont blame them because we were like hooligans. but im proud of what ive become and i thank them for what i am today. perhaps these parents think that their childhood had too much scolding and spanking and wouldnt want that to happen to their kids, without realising they are bringing up a bunch of spoilt brats.

no, it is not abuse if you spank your kids. there are ways of doing that, islam has set guidelines on that. and you dont go and spank or scold all you like, you tell them off ONLY when they do something wrong. not go and pujuk them and say sorry. oh my god, you apologise for the bad deeds your children did? no wonder the youngsters now are out of control.

or if your child did something wrong, you blame someone else's kid when its YOUR OWN kid who did the shit.

'mana belajar ni jerit-jerit?'

'john yang ajar'

so you blame john padahal kau tak nampak pun john tu suka jerit ke tak or ntah2 tak exist pun sebab kau percaya bulat2 apa anak kau cakap. get this one right, whenever your kid did something wrong, never blame someone else because your kid will grow up a bull-shitting liar. and a big bully too. kalau kau tak tahu pun dia cakap betul ke tak, kau sound je lah yang kau tak suka apa yang dia buat.

make your kids likeable, and they'll get to places some day.

gila lah, sekarang ni aku bergaduh dengan budak kecik-kecik je. ;p