my 1st year anniversary of marriage ~ 7.7. 2008

i am writing this down so that i can look back and remember this particular day.

yesterday was my first anniversary of marriage. at first, i couldn't really believe it. time passed by like lightning. it's like i blink only once and suddenly it's a year already. so what have i done in a year of hitching?

i've been having fun, obviously. getting to know my hubby better (not that i know him to the core yet, still a lot to learn. heh). mind you though, knowing each other for 5 years before marriage is nothing like it in a year of being married to him. instead, you will learn different things, which i won't go into details. i'll let you guys venture the marriagehood yourself. heheh.

somehow, one thing i learned about being married is that you always have to live up to peoples' expectations. it's like everything that you used to do before getting hitched is not appropriate any more after being a wife and husband. why oh why? we are only human beings, for god sake.

another thing is the pressure people give on getting a baby. yes, i know that in islam, the significant reason of marriage is to extend good family bloodline. but come on guys, you cant simply force it out of the belly if there isnt one, can you? please,have some sensitivity here. i thought orang-orang tua la pandai bercakap halus, ni tidak. macam taktau je proses nak dapat baby mcmane. ok la if the conversation goes like this, xpelakan..

A: eh, xpregnant lagi ke? (a bit harsh i must say but i can let this pass cause i can be blunt too.hehe) or another one, 'xde ape-ape lagi ke?' (ni berlapik sket la)

me: hmm, xde lagi la...(buat muke mcm xbersalah)

A: xpela, xde rezeki lagi la tuh. lgpun muda lagi, ok la tuh.

me: haah. tu la, tgah berusaha sungguh2 ni. hahah:D

but i REALLY HATE this one.

B: nape xde lagi baby? kau ni, planning ke? xbaik la planning2 ni. muda-muda la nak ada baby. senang bile da tua nanti.

me: mcmane planning, bole ajar?(hati panas ni)
tapi kan, ada je yg planning tu terdapat gak baby, mcmane tuh?
baik xpyh planning ek? tu makne nye rezeki di tgn tuhan kan?

orang mcmni mmg x pyh di ajar. kalo kot ye pun ada org planning, its not your place pun to ask because malu la sket. kita kan orang melayu, penuh adat istiadat. ces kan aku da membebel padahal aku nak cerita benda lain.

ok back to the main story-mory i..heheh

kami sangat bahagia semalam. sgt lovey-dovey. hahah. i forced him to take leave, itupun half day. i had to lepak at my office to wait for him. after he settled all his work, then we went to Public Mutual to settle few things (anyone interested please contact me. heh). then, suddenly he said,'jom kita pergi lunch. sayang mesti nak lunch dengan fazana kan?' heheh. nak la, kan da dekat time tuh. so, i called my bestfriend and told her we are on the way. we had lunch at Kopitian, just below her office. food was delicious, especially the chilli tempe. so orgasmic. heh. plus cik faza kita yang belanja. :)

kami yang menggediks

pekan mee rebus..bole tahan la beb

then, we went to bank islam at KL Sentral. seem its the day for visiting banks. heheh. yela, bila lagi kan because my sayang is always so busy. menyampah i tau. tapi xpe, going to the bank togeda2 pun da gumbira. hahah. we are applying loan for a house. yela, setaun kawen kene cari tempat tinggal. heheh. we found this place in section 15, bangi and we fell in love. at last, finally we could agree on the same house.

after that, kita org pun wandering je around deciding where to go next. suddenly i remembered charles & keith has opened recently. so, off to pavillion. i was a bit disappointed though, the design did not attract me at all like it used to. i dont know, maybe the wrong line came in? boleh ke macam tu? so, jalan2 je. tgk nine west, it's even worse. zaman tuk anun bile ntah still the same old design. pastu bile sale, benda yang sama gak. new arrival pun sama jugak. haish. malaysia kene do something la.

last-last, we bought nothing. nothing that really makes me want to buy. tapi tipu la xde but the things that i want is totally out of the question la kan? heheh. so, kitorg pun lepak kat j.co je. sambil melahap doughnuts and ice-blended cappucino, we talked about our future. and the past too. da lama x sit down and talk like this. sebab dia kan slalu busy tinggal kan aku je. haha.

my sayang

me, just after the second orgasmic doughnut

magrib kat pavillion. then we decided to go to ampang look out point at menara tinjau. a place yang banyak orang ramai telah perkatakan. a place where you can see the whole KL free of charge without going to menara kl and kene bayar plak tuh. the view was quite amazing. you really can see the whole of KL. i bet thats where the drama-drama melayu sering dilakonkan especially part-part bibit asmara tuh. haha.

KL view from Ampang Look Out Point

rase macam berlakon drama melayu - part bercinta diatas bukit :D

we had dinner up there. the wind is quite cold and chilly. plus it just rained so it was misty. there were 3 restaurants to choose from. one serve bbq, another western and last serve arab food. we opted for the arab food (the middle one called Bread & Olive) since it was the least crowded. romantic sket, kata anniversary kan. hahah. the food was nice lah and affordable too. except sayang's roasted chicken was a tad little bit of salty when eating own its own but with rice it's just nice. plus, i know arabs like salty food. and i must say really good service. and i know lah kan because i hate bad customer service. aku bole mengamuk je kat situ tau. boleh la kalau ayah mau blanje kami di sana.. heheh

our appetiser: zatayer (arab version of pizza)

mine: lamb shwarma

hep, don't touch my chips!

sayang with his briyani roasted chicken

we went back happy and full. it wasn't much but i really enjoyed it because i got him to myself the whole day. to those who wished us, thanks yaw!

us: yang sangat happy :P

and to sayang, happy anniversary. hope we will be happy for the rest of our lives. and thank you for making me so happy on our special day. hehe :)

p/s: i promised myself i will make an entry on the previous trip to langkawi. we'll see how time allows me to mebuang masa. hehe